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Weddings! They are an absolute joyous affair aren’t they but they can also be one of the most stressful things to plan, alongside moving house, that probably wins, but planning a wedding is close behind when it comes to those rising stress levels.

No matter how long you have to plan your wedding, or how big your budget is, you are possibly going to have concerns on your big day. You may not want to be late, although that is a bride’s prerogative, but what other things could you be concerned about?

I wanted to share with you some of the common dilemmas or concerns brides have before or during their special days. 

Common concerns for your wedding day: Do they really matter?

Whether your guests will have a good time

Will your guests have a good time? That is a question you might be asking yourself over and over, and to be honest, you can’t predict or know how they are going to feel on your special day. But what you can do is ensure that you throw a great party, and there are many ways that you can do it.

Thinking about the venue and getting the right place is crucial, but other aspects like a good DJ or having a wedding band can also really get the party started. Look online and read reviews to find the right sort of entertainment for your wedding. Just remember to book them up in advance so that you don’t miss out. 

Does your theme and colour scheme match?

One of the biggest things you may fear on your day is whether the theme you have chosen and the colour scheme match together. Websites and blogs could help you ahead of time. It is all well and good working of your sample for however many months, but once it is put together does it really look as good as you thought it would? Does the bridesmaid dress match the bows on the chairs?

In theory, these details are never going to be important on the day, no guest is really that bad where they will take notice or comment on these things, but it can be a genuine worry for any bride in the lead up to the big day. 

Has the vision come alive?

Not only will you be worrying about your colour scheme and theme, but you might also be concerned about whether the whole vision for your day has come alive exactly how you imagined it would? It can be a tricky situation to find yourself in, but when you have something in your head and it gets presented in front of you, for some it isn’t always exactly how you pictured it.

Again whether this is a worry about flowers or how your venue looks, once you get married none of it will really matter. It will all look and feel fabulous.

Any family or friendship drama on the big day

Finally, all families and friendship groups are bound to experience moments of tension or conflict. It’s a normal part of human interaction. This can be particularly concerning when planning a major event like a wedding, as you worry about whether everyone will get along and enjoy themselves. However, if the people you care about truly value your happiness, I’m confident that they will set aside their differences and come together to celebrate with you. Remember, love and respect can bridge even the widest divides.

I hope that sharing these concerns helps to put your mind at rest a little.

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